Tuesday, December 21, 2010

HOW HAPPY IS LIFE WITHOUT A GIRLFRIEND

1. You can stare at any Girl......
2. You don't have to spend money on her.
3. You won't get boring result in ur board papers.
4. No girlfriend, no emotional blackmailing.
5. If u don't have a girlfriend, she can't dump u.
6. Having a girlfriend is hot, not having a girlfriend is automatically cool, and every one loves to be a cool guy.
7. This can be more to life than just waiting for the bloody phone to ring .
8. You won't have to tolerate someone else defining,"right" and "wrong" for u.
9. Girlfriend can get so possessive that you can't do anything according ur wishes anymore.
10. You can buy gifts for mom, dad, sis or grandpa instead of a girlfriend and have a happier family life.
11. You won't have to waste paper writing love letters No more endless waiting for ur date to arrive at some weird shop\place.
12. You can have more friends, as u will have more time for them.
13. You wont have to see boring love stories instead of sports.
14. You wont have to tell lie to anybody and,therefore, u'll sin less.
15. You can have good night's sleep-no need to dream about her.
16. You wont have to fight over having a 'special' friend with ur folks.
17. No nonstop nonsense.
18. You wont have drown in the pool of her tears.
19. No tension.
20. You can be "urself"
21. You wont have to hide your telephone bills...... > > > > >

So Try to AVOID Girl Friends in your Life...!

අම්මා

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to takeanother woman out to dinner and a movie. She said Ilove you but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.
The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was myMOTHER,who has been a widow for 19 years, but thedemands of my work and my three children had made itpossible to visit her only occasionally.
That night I called to invite her to go out for dinnerand a movie.
"What's wrong, are you well," she asked? My mother isthe type of woman who suspects that a late night callor a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news.
"I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you," Iresponded. "Just the two of us."
She thought about it for a moment, and then said, "Iwould like that very much."
That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her upI was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, Inoticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about ourdate. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she hadworn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.
She smiled from a face that was as radiant as anangel's.
"I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, "she said, as she gotinto the car. "They can't wait to hear about ourmeeting". We went to a restaurant that, although notelegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down,I had to read the menu. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sittingthere staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips
"It was I who used to have to read the menu when youwere small," she said.
"Then it's time that you relax and let me return thefavor," I responded.
During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation - nothing extraordinary, but catching up on recentevents of each other's life. We talked so much that wemissed the movie.
As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I'll goout with you again, but only if you let me invite you." I agreed.
"How was your dinner date?" asked my wife when I gothome. "Very nice. Much more so than I could haveimagined," I answered.
A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I did to not get to doanything for her.
Some time later, I received an envelope with a copyof a restaurant receipt from the same place mother andI had dined.
An attached note said: "I paid this bill in advance. Iwasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, Ipaid for two plates - one for you and the other foryour wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son."
At that moment, I understood the importance of sayingin time: "I LOVE YOU!" and to give our loved ones thetime that they deserve. Nothing in life is moreimportant than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be putoff till "some other time."
Here's hoping today is better than yesterday and tomorrow. (thanks to E Thanuja)__._,_.___

Monday, December 20, 2010

Facing a Job Interview


First of all, here are some few tips to follow during the intereview


Start the interview with a pleasant smile.
Always remember to give a firm handshake. If there are women in your interview panel, wait for the other person to extend the hand while shaking hands.
Listen carefully to what the interviewer is saying
Stress on what you can contribute to the organization.
Remember that the employer is in control of the interview
Don't be too long-winded – say what you want to convey in crisp sentences and use terms that would convey your job & achievements.
Complete your sentences - don't answer just yes or no
What you don't know can be learned – tell them if you don't know something. But give instances of how quick a learner you are.
Do not boast. People on the other side are shrewd and can generally see through you. At the same time talk about achievements giving due credit to others.
When talking about yourself and your aspirations, do not sound vague or do not say that you don't know something. You should be very clear and precise about what you want to do, where you want to go etc.
If you don't understand a question, ask for clarification, don't answer vaguely.
Don't talk about your personal problems, why you need the job etc
Don't get personal – even if you know the interviewer personally
Don't be overconfident or too nervous
Don't badmouth your previous employer - you could do the same in the case of the prospective customer
Don't complain about politics, a bad boss or a poor salary - your reasons for change should be higher responsibilities, location etc.
If the interviewer is interrupted during the course of the interview, don't pick up papers on his/her desk and read them
Don't ask about salary before the offer is made
Strike a balance between what you actually are and what you want to be – don't paint a picture of yourself as somebody who is not concerned about money, social status etc.
Don't be in a hurry to complete the interview
Ask questions at the end of the interview – it could be about the company, the job or the next stage of the interview process. It will be an indicator of your interest in the position
Send a thank-you letter – outlining your interest in the job and why you are qualified for it



here are some typical questions you will be asked in a tuogh interview.

Q. Tell me about a task that really tested your analytical abilities as a civil engineer?
A. Effectively manages himself with reason and logic in resolving daily coding problems.

Q. Can you tell me about a situation where your analysis of a problem was deemed to be incorrect? Today what would you have done differently?
A. You have character to admit mistakes. More importantly, you learn from your mistakes and have become a stronger more analytical chemical engineer because of this?

Q. Describe how you handle complicated civil engineering problems, which contain a degree of vagueness and confusing data. Do you enjoy it?
A. Relishes complex problems, can master minute detail and ambiguous data and transform it into clear precise plans and flow charts. Give a few examples of this.

Q. Tell me about a time when you were unhappy with a segment of analysis complied by one of your senior colleagues. What action did you take?
A. You demand high analytical standards for all work done in your section, you pushed others to improve their standards by instructing them directly, if necessary.

Q. Do you always double-check your work? Tell me about a time when you didn't.
A. Is aware of quality processes and always tries to deliver flawless work.

Q. Tell me about an assignment that really stretched your attention to detail. What advice would you give somebody who has to do a similar job?
A. Knows that attention to detail in vital for quality output, may find it difficult but always perseveres to the end.

Q. During the working day as a civil engineer how do you decide what work to prioritize?
A. Is responsible and sensible enough to be able to be able to prioritize your tasks? Is sufficiently focused to get to the core point of any issue, Can also do this whilst under pressure?

Q. When you have an important structural type problem to solve, how do you decide what information is essential to making an informed decision?
A. Capable of deciding what data is important and what is not in making an informed decision; will also seek informed help and expertise to bring about a successful conclusion?

Q. Tell me about a project that really extended your powers as a civil engineer? Could you have pushed yourself further?
A. Illustrate your ability to think logically and imaginatively about problems; you expend great energy and imagination when completing projects.

Q. Tell me about one case when you tried to solve a problem with a totally new different approach than is normally used. What was the result?
A. Ready to solve problems in a different manner and ready to handle situations with innovative thinking. Is able to create new opportunities and procedures even out of problems

Q. What do you do when circumstances at work make you feel tense and pressurized?
A. Displays maturity and an optimistic attitude.

Q. Describe the last time when you were in a high-pressure situation?
A. Give detailed examples of a project where you performed effectively while under great pressure and a tight deadline; sure pressure inspires you.

Q. What steps do you take after you have isolated the cause of a problem? Give me a specific example.
A. Displays strong analytical and troubleshooting skills.

Q. Tell me about a recent solution you came up with which failed to solve the problem. What did you learn from this experience?
A. Has the character and honesty to own up to past failures. Get views of peers with relevant expertise and knowledge before implementing any solution.

Q. How do you keep up to date with recent developments in your field as a civil engineer?
A. Keeps up to date with the latest developments in his industry through seminars, industry newsletters, professional organizations, research papers and networking throughout the industry

Q. What is your approach to managing large civil engineering projects?
A. Give them an example which shows your ability to anticipate and resolve issues, as a direct result of being able to organize your project into manageable modules.

Q. When you were part of a very successful team, what in your opinion, were the reasons for its success?
A. You recognize the importance of a shared purpose, whereby everyone is prepared to collaborate and pool his or her resources.

Q. When you have worked on a team, as a crucial member, what was your role? In what way was this team effort different or similar to working on your own?
A. Give examples which show you have the capacity to work both as a team member and as an individual.

Q. Tell me about a time when your team working skills failed. What did you do about it?
A. You know that effective and strong team working is vital for the company to succeed, you are continually trying to improve your team working and cooperative skills.

Q. How could your work performance be improved by incorporating new technical knowledge and developments? Give me an example.
A. Show an eagerness and willingness to push for new technical training and to implement this new knowledge into work practices.

Q. Give me an example of a recent assignment, which involved learning a new technical skill.
A. Show a willingness to learn and progress, by learning and implementing new knowledge and programming skills.

Q. Tell me about a time when it was necessary for you to communicate technical information, clearly, to non-technical colleagues. Did you find it difficult?
A. Explain how you can communicate complex technological information succinctly and clearly, by adapting it to your audience.

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Succes

PLAN while others are playing.
STUDY while others are sleeping.
DECIDE while others are delaying.
PREPARE while others are daydreaming.
BEGIN while others are procrastinating.
WORK while others are wishing.
SAVE while others are wasting.
LISTEN while others are talking.
SMILE while others are frowning. COMMEND while others are criticizing.
PERSIST while others are quitting.

Got to love Brits too

A train was quite crowded, so a U. S. Marine walked the entire length looking for a seat, but the only seat left was taken by a well dressed, middle-aged, French woman's poodle. The war-weary Marine asked, "Ma'am, may I have that seat?" The French woman just sniffed and said to no one in particular, "Americans are so rude. My little Fifi is using that seat."
The Marine walked the entire train again, but the only seat left was under that dog. "Please, ma'am. May I sit down? I'm very tired." She snorted, "Not only are you Americans rude, you are also arrogant!" This time the Marine didn't say a word; he just picked up the little dog, tossed it out the train window, and sat down.
The woman shrieked, "Someone must defend my honor! this American should be put in his place!"
An English gentleman sitting nearby spoke up, "Sir, you Americans often seem to have a penchant for doing the wrong thing. You hold the fork inthe wrong hand. You drive your autos on the wrong side of the road. And now, sir, you seem to have thrown the wrong bitchout the window.

THOUGHTS ABOUT LOVE.......................

Here is a some good quotes about love that has been collected over aperiod of time :
It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is morepainful is to love someone and never find the courage to let thatperson know how you feel.
Maybe we have to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right oneso that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to begrateful for that gift.
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romancein a relationship and find out you still care for that person.
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you,only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you justhave to let go.
When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often times welook so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which hasbeen opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swingwith, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was thebest conversation you've ever had.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, butit's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until itarrives.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll loveyou back. Don't expect love in return, just wait for it to grow intheir heart, but if it doesn't, be sure it grew in yours.
There are things you'd love to hear that you would never hear fromthe person whom you would like to hear from, but don't be so deaf asnot to hear it from the one who says it from his heart.
Never say good-bye if you still want to try, never give up if youstill feel you can go on, never say you don't love a person anymore ifyou can't let go.
Love comes to those who still hope although they've beendisappointed, to those who still believe although they've beenbetrayed, need to love those who still love although they've been hurtbefore.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to likesomeone and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forgetsomeone.
Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, in the endit fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takesonly a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you justwant to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real.
Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what youwant to be, because you have only one life and one chance to all thethings you want to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials tomake you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to makeyou happy and enough money to buy me gifts.
Always put yourself in other's shoes. If you feel it hurts you, itprobably hurts the other person too.
A careless word may kindle strife, a cruel word may wreck a life, atimely word may level stress, a loving word may heal and bless.
The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves, andnot twist them with our own image otherwise, we love only thereflection of ourselves we find in them.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything,they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who havesearched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate theimportance of people who have touched their lives.
Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, youcan't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures andheartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you wassmiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who issmiling and everyone around you is crying.
Love is an unusual game. There are either two winners or none.
If I could reinvent the alphabet, I would put U and I together.
Love doesn't make the world go 'round, it makes the ride worthwhile.
Love is what makes two people sit in the middle of a bench whenthere's plenty of room at both ends.

Our Love

Every time we touchIt's like the very first time

Every kiss you give meGets better like fine wine
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Whenever I think my heart

could not possibly hold anymore love It just grows bigger and stronger

then glides through the air like a dove
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When you hold me in your arms

It's roses, champagne and fireworks

right there

Your eyes draw me in

with a lover's stare
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I can follow that stare right into your soul

and find the place that is mine

Heart to heart, soul to soul

Two spirits entwine
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I don't need to wait for one special day

to tell you how I feel

Everyday is special

because our love is real
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No, it's not just one day

Not only two or three

Valentine's DayIs Everyday

When It Comes To You And Me